My primary love language is Quality Time. The Five Love Languages website describes it as thus:
In the vernacular of Quality Time, nothing says, “I love you,” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there–with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby–makes your significant other feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.
I find myself agreeing to this. I love spending time with people I cherish. In the same vein, I feel that I’m being rude if I’m not paying attention to what the other person’s saying.
My secondary love language is Acts of Service:
Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most want to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter.
Haha! I hate it especially when events do not go as planned. 
Or when my desk is too messy.
Or when my desk is too messy.You can take the love languages test at this link. Let me know what yours is, k?
Let me know what yours is, k?
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